Take note,

If you don't want to get your relationship into a mess, avoid this mistake. To get your relationship back on the track, stop yelling at your ex that he or she is making a huge mistake for ever breaking up with you.

Break ups can hurt! And when we are in such a situation it is advisable to stay calm even though it will be hard to do. But if you want to have an edge over your partner to making up you just have to stay calm. Your staying calm only makes you more matured in the face of the challenges you are face with. When your heads are still raised high in the face of break up, it is unnatural for people around not to notice it. for instance when your ex ask you to leave or is telling you that he cant see any hope in your friendship again, and needs a space, act maturely, leave as stated without much argument and say your goodbye.

Don't try and convince him/her how good you have been to his life. You don't need to remind him, let him discover it himself. And when he finally does it will be good for you. But if you continue to tell him he made a mistake dumping you, to his face, angrily and trying to destroy thing in his house, throwing up his property and threatening to burn down his house...etc it only shows that you are not secured without him.

When your ex ask you to leave and you did without a threat or argument, but with a smile and a hug and your "all the best in life" parting words, the only injury you have inflicted on his/her ego is put your ex in a confusion. Make him think "Am I not making the greatest mistake of my life?" Why would he or she think that way?

Because you did not cry nor beg him to take you back at that period.. Your confidence and maturity in this case only tells one thing- you can do it in life without him/her. And remember one of the most annoying things in any relationship is knowing that your partner does not need you just while you believe you cant live without them

When you make your partner understand that it takes two to make and build a relationship,that if he/she doesn't want you then they don't deserve to have you Without you acting maturely your chances of getting him/her back might be zero.

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